Matty

Crazy-Driven-Masochist = INFJ

The next post concerns passive-aggressive types of people and managing your behavior with them

Today I am writing about types of roommate and the borderlines we have to watch not to make a toxic environment. There are different types of people we should consider in our treatments: 1. People who knows boundaries well; You can keep your healthy relationship with them without caring too much. It is my favorite case as a roommate. 2. People who are insecure about their boundaries but they sometimes intrude yours. It is easy only to sketch a line for them and be aware if they are likely to cross the line. For brevity, I am not very interested in close relationship with such personality traits. 3. People who are more aggressive-defensive and they recklessly tries to poison you though they are expressing their own obsessions. Stay firm against them and respectfully cast aside them for their toxic momentarily behavior. Wash your hands of these people. 4. People who intelligently manipulate you are very interesting type. They are not friends but you can have a win-win bounding with them not very close not strange to each other. Keep each other for the times you both needs intelligent advice. I tried to concisely share my points of view here though number 3 is sort of laconic advice and it needs more elaboration. In future, I will get back with more pithy statements and proverbs.

How and when to say no at work Keep this discussion for future

Altruism? It is defined as the principle and moral practice of concern for promoting well-fare of other human beings or animals, resulting in a quality of life both material and spiritual. It is not only beneficial but also provides fresh insights for life. As discovered by many recent researches, Western cultures has expressed a high regard for altruism, but the story is not done at this point. Although beneficial, it can be a back door to hell. Witnessed by history, well-meaning tendencies by some altruistic people result in horrific episodes in differing forms. Next, I'll detail more about pathological altruism.